Monday, July 18, 2011

Living as we were Created to Be: The Trinity

The trinity is a crazy doctrine. It is sometimes hard to grasp the concept that our God is three in one. Not one with three parts. Not three with a common theme. But three in one, at the same time.

Recently through a sermon by Tim Keller my eyes were opened to how this characteristic of God bears a heavy weight on how we live.

God created us in his own image. Our character should reflect God’s because at our very nature that is how we were created to be. In the sermon he highlights how because God is a triune God he has been in relationships since the beginning of time. At the same time being one with the other members of the trinity they are also interacting and glorifying each other. We are created to be like Them/Him so we are created to be in deep, meaningful, other centered relationships.

Tasks and Anxiety:
Open your eyes and look at the people around you. They are task driven. Now look at your self, you are task driven.
Think about anxiety. It seems anxiety is always surrounding an unfinished task list or the completion of something we need to do. But Christ has done it all. No task need be done anymore for us to gain anything. Christ has restored our nature as it was intended to be. Because we no longer have the need to complete a task to establish our significance we are freed to return to a life oriented around relationships, relationship with God and relationships with other people. Task still need to be completed but they don’t hold the weight that creates anxiety any longer and they should be performed in the context of relationships. We were not created that way, we are meant to be relationships people. Because that is our creator’s character.


Desire to be in community:
Think about people who are sad. Think about how they are alone. Cubical job, living alone or with a roommate that they don’t engage with. Think about how we are encouraged as we grow up to appear in control in school and in the workplace. Now think about what people feel. They feel a desire to know people and be known by people. Often times people with jobs and lives that don’t have them engaging with people look to find this is other places. Facebook. Fantasy football. Going to the same restaurant every Tuesday for wing night. Sure they love playing Farmville, sure football is fun to watch and follow closely, and of course 35 cents wings is something to come together around. But these things are empty. Football season breeds temporal and shallow friendships and spicy wings don’t satisfy your heart. The problem is in these space filling relationships the context does not encourage or allow us to be open and known more fully. We continue to try to appear in control, appear knowledgeable so people respect us, we try to cover who we really are. The context of the Gospel is you can and should be open. @JDGreear this past Sunday commented on how many tv shows (the brady bunch), many families, and many churches are full of people being fake. They are covering up who they really are because they think if people really knew them that they would not accept them. And that is probably true. But… the Gospel allows us to bear ourselves completely; ugly, mean people who are still loved and changed by our relationships.

The reason it hurts so much to feel alone. The reason it feels so right to be laughing while playing catchphrase in a group of close friends is because that is who we were created to be. These feelings are a glimpse into the world in which God created us to live. With sin in our lives, just like Adam and Eve we attempt to cover ourselves and not have people see our nakedness. But Christ has clothed us in his righteousness. He has taken this glimpse of happiness and fulfilled it. People, this longing you have to be known by others in community is your desire to live as you were created to live. The fear you have of fully doing this is your attempt to cover what you know is true, you are sinful. Christ has made it so we don’t have to cover who we are in front of others. Christ restores us to our created nature. In relationships, fully known, and fully loved. Only through him can community be fulfilling.

Friday, April 8, 2011

Some Rambling Thoughts on Luke 4

And the devil took him up and showed him all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time, and said to him, "To you I will give all this authority and their glory, for it has been delivered to me, and I give it to whom I will. If you, then, will worship me, it will all be yours." And Jesus answered him, "It is written, 'You shall worship the Lord your God, and him only shall you serve.'" Luke 4:5-8.

Some reflections that God gave me while meditating on this passage over the past few days:

I was thinking about the phrase "all the kingdoms of the world in a moment of time." Glenn, feel free to jump in here, but to me this sounds like the "in a moment of time" phrase may refer to the future. I'm not sure Satan knows the future. Perhaps for the sake of argument, since he is a part of the spiritual realm (whole other topic), he can see somewhat into the future. Thus, perhaps what Satan is showing Christ here is the Roman empire, the Ottomans, the numerous Chinese dynasties, Indian dynasties, the Soviets, Napoleon, even modern America.

Christ came to earth so that His name would be renown among all people and all creation. Thus, from the initial appearance of Satan's offer, Christ would do this simply by taking Satan up on his offer. This raises some huge practical issues. What would it be like for Satan to have give Jesus glory and honor among all of these kingdoms of all time? What if all ruler's loved Jesus? What if Christianity was mandated by all governments and rulers? From one angle, it's a very tempting prospect. What then happens to the church? What happens then to the crucifixion? Would the Jews of the day still hate Christ and demand He be put to death?

If Christ had said yes, he may have succeeded in making his name known throughout history (of course we know He has still accomplished this) - BUT it would not have come through the regeneration and rebirth and repentence of souls. People would know and honor Christ but would they love Him?

You see, there is a reason that Satan is called the Great Deceiver. (Here's the point that God made real to me yesterday that got me pumped and inspired me to write this to you). Forget for a moment that you know that Christ is already the ruler and already has the authority and glory that Satan is trying to promise him. Satan tells Christ he is going to "give" Jesus "all this authority and their glory." But what's the cost? Worshipping Satan. Thus, to agree to this, is to become a puppet. Is Christ really in authority over these kingdoms and does he really receive their glory? How could he if Christ was worshipping Satan? Christ would then be acting as a funnel for glory to Satan. Then how long is it before people realize, "hey we're worshipping Christ, but He's worshipping Satan, so maybe we should just worship Satan instead."

Thus a less painful, seemingly easy short-cut ends up ultimately undercutting Christ and His ultimate purpose.

Now, of course, we all know this is wild, crazy speculation. After all, Christ didn't do this and wouldn't do this and thus it is a completely moot point. But I do think it has relevance for how Satan tempts us. We are tempted to take easier, less painful, short cuts because they may get us to the ends that we desire - ends that may be truly Biblical.

I remember once asking my mom when I was a kid, "If I could be a movie star, I could give lots of money away and push for good causes and tell people about Jesus. However, I might have to say cuss words in movies or kiss a woman who I wasn't married to, etc. But wouldn't God think that was okay since ultimately, I was doing good things for Him?" Though I don't remember her exact words, she said "No" and then explained why that wasn't really what God wanted us to do. That he would rather have us be poor and honor Him, than to dishonor him by getting rich.

Reminds me of one of my favorite quotes:

"Take heed to yourselves, lest your example contradict your doctrine, and lest you lay such stumbling blocks before the blind, as may be the occasion of their ruin; lest you unsay with your lives, what you say with your tongues; and be the greatest hinderers of the success of your own labors." - Richard Baxter (English Puritan)

Take courage brothers. The road is long and narrow and difficult. God will challenge you and refine you and allow you to be tempted, but stay true to Him and His word in your ends and in the means you choose to seek those ends.

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

The more I get saved, the more they get lost.

When I feel true joy, security, happiness, and community and then I encounter someone who does not have that. I want that for them. I want them to have Christ.

It's a perspective issue.

If our lives aren't different than non-Christians then we don't see the reason for them to follow Jesus. Because we don't feel its effect on us. At the same time, they don't see the difference either, and they in turn don't see the reason to follow.

Work out your faith and follow Christ.

Driving Mrs. Karen

Another analogy to think about.

Remember when you were young and your parents let you sit in their lap and drive the car down the road. Who was driving the car / who was really in control / who was responsible for the car? What if this taught children that they were independent enough to drive a car on their own. It would be disastrous!

When we begin to think that we are in control, and our skills are the main source of our doing good works, breathing, making money, or sharing Christ; that is when we could "go get in the car and drive it ourselves". That is dangerous.

We are not driving. So make sure you pray and ask God to keep the car on the road in all things. Acknowledging that he is really in control makes driving so much safer.

Friday, March 11, 2011

The Treasure Principle

Quotes and thoughts from "The Treasure Principle".

Like Christ
"Gaze upon Christ long enough and you'll become more of a giver. Give long enough, and you'll become more like Christ."
Good point.


Gain
"He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain with he cannot lose."
"Giving doesn't strip me of vested interests; rather, it shifts my vested interests from earth to heaven - from self to God."
What we do is for gain. One gain can be for ourselves. A better gain is when that gain is in God's Kingdom and for Him and not me.
Pursuit of gain is not sinful. The gain must be for God's Kingdom.


Owner and Money Manager.
It is all God's. When we use our/his money it should be used in light of it being his that he has granted to us to use for him.


Practical Principles for thought

Don't buy anything you won't loan. If you are going to be too protective of something so much that you won't let someone else use it this is a problem. Comes back to thinking that it is yours. Not that it is yours on loan from God.

Don't buy anything that you would be upset if someone you had given money to used that money for. Don't buy a bedroom suit that if you gave someone else some money and they bought that bedroom set you would be made for their extravagant use of the money.
Kristen was great when she pointed out to me that if we did this we would have forgotten that we are doing the exact same thing with God. He has given us money and we would be using it to make extravagant and unnecessary purchases. I really like this principle.

Solid

Danny Franks was sharing at our most recent men's group meeting about the pharisees and followers of Jesus. They both studied Jesus, followed him, asked him questions.

The difference was the pharisees were trying to take Jesus and put them in their mold of religion. They wanted to take what Jesus was saying and call it good or bad. If it fit their ideals and rules then they would except him. Of course it didn't fit. So they labored to oppose him. The disciples did the same things; studied, followed him, asked question. And the disciples even had some bad ideas about Jesus. They wanted him to be a military ruler, to conquer this world, and make them great.

The difference in the two is that the pharisees were trying understand Jesus and change him so they could put him in his appropriate place in their lives to make their lives better, put him in a box or throw him out of their box. The disciples wanted to be understood and changed by him.

This made me think about how much weight we currently place on people being "solid". I'm not saying that this is bad. Having strong, good, solid theology is not bad. It is good to understand and know God more. But that is not being a Christian. Rather than measuring a person's "Christian-ness" by their theology and understanding shouldn't we measure that by their willingness to follow Christ and be changed by him.

Being a Christian is not about how much correct knowledge you have it is about your posture before the Cross.

I am very guilty of this. When I read books, study scripture, go to church, listen to sermons, I am trying to learn so that I know and can be seen as one who understands. Rather than this, I should do these things with a heart desiring to be more like Jesus.

We should grow in knowledge of him, but let us support those who follow him and are changed by him, not just if they can quote piper.


(addendum; talked with a friend last night about this and he commented that when he says solid that he is referencing the person following Christ and not their theology. solid is not a bad word, I just hope we don't become pharisees in that we feel superior as Christians because of what we know. We all have some bad theology in there somewhere, Jesus asks that we follow and pursue him.)

Thursday, March 10, 2011

The wall or the lifeguard?

Had this pt say to me yesterday.
About pool therapy.
She was very scared to be in the water.

"You and the wall were my savior."
Sweet right.
She was saying that the wall and I made it more comfortable for her to be in the water. She felt safe and secure with the wall and with me there.

But wrong.
I was her savior. The wall wouldn't move to go get her. If she got detached from the wall she would have no hope but her self. She would die (she can't swim)

But me. I would dive in and go to her and get her.

This is the difference in a savior that is really no savior at all. An idol that we think is our security and life line that really will abandon us if we loose it, or disappoint it.

But Jesus is not that kind of savior. Jesus came into our existence (the pool in the analogy) and can, will, and did pull us out.

Men, Jesus is your savior because he came to get you. wow.

Friday, March 4, 2011

Teaching Christ to our wives.

I have been thinking a lot lately about how we demonstrate Christ to our wives.

My thoughts came out of my own mistake last night. I don't think Kristen even saw it as a mistake but I was truly convicted. Probably partially because I have been called out by others throughout my life as being a person who gets ingrained and focused on work, my computer, tv, a book, or my phone. Kristen got home after me yesterday and I was working on the Carolina 365 video which I am very excited about. I was in the office, she came upstairs, changed clothes, went back down stairs and was ready to go the Thirdcamp and I never looked up. When I realized what I had done I got my stuff together ran downstairs and embraced her and kissed her and told her I loved her.

Was my original reaction the reaction that Christ will have when his bride returns home???

Let me put this in order of my current thoughts.

Ephesians 5:25 says we are to love our wives just as Christ loved the church and give himself up for her.
We very often use this verse to explain how our interactions with our spouces are to be teaching others about Christ and his love for us. But what we miss in that application to each other is that our interactions with our wives is also teaching OUR WIVES about Christ love for them.

In Luke 15:20 we see the parable of the lost son(s). When the son returns home we see the father run to his son and embrace him, give him a ring, a robe, some sandals, , kill the fatted calf and they celebrated. But yesterday I did not act this way towards Kristen.

Men, love your wives and Christ loves the church. I challenge you all, when your wife gets home/comes in a room; look up at her, look her in the face, kiss her, tell her the place she holds in your heart. I believe when we do this for them their love for us will grow out of a response of their loved heart.

We are not only teaching others about Christ by our interactions with our wives we are also teaching ourselves and our wives the gospel with our daily interactions.

Be more like Christ.

Take heart, he has overcome the world.

Saturday, February 12, 2011

Cynicism and Jesus

A Praying Life: Part 2: Leaning to Trust Again.

The three chapters in Part two of A Praying Life were really good. He does a good job of explaining our cynical culture, where it comes from and how we leave cynicism (Jesus)

The cynic says everything is out of control, nothing will change.

“In our culture cynicism is a light hearted attempt to make since of life in a world gone mad” (81, Miller).


Our lives begins with a desire to be happy, to see good in the world. As children we see good in cookie monster, good in mailmen and police officers, and parents who love us and love each other. Without a worldview of God and a fallen world we develop what Miller calls “naïve optimism”. We think the world is good because people make it good. We have faith in ourselves.

As we all believe (because of our worldview) people will always disappoint. People cannot fill the void left by the original desire to find joy and goodness in the world. This is what leads to cynicism, we discover that other people are not as great as we thought and that the world is a lot meaner than we expected. Again, the cynic says everything is out of control, nothing will change. Joy and goodness are not the mantras of this world, sadness and evil are. When we are hit with this inevitable realization and disappointment we are cynical towards other people and have faith in ourselves.

This position in life creates a dual self. Public self, and private self. Deep down we realize that we do wrong as well and that we are a part of the problem but we are unwilling to admit that. We put our perfect public self forward to fake out everyone we encounter to thinking that we have this life under control. We are trying to hold on to naïve optimism and show everyone that we are the hope for the world because we are perfect. In our time of denial we are putting faith in ourselves.

This essentially places us living a separated private life without any real community and without anyone knowing who we truly are. This is a painful world to be in. We live in pretend land where our lives are falsely full of joy and goodness while we are missing reality that this world (as it is fallen) is without hope and is full of evil and sadness. Empty, alone, apart from reality, all because we want joy and goodness in this world, that itself is not good. So, how is that going for you? Putting faith in your self.

The media does this. Notice how the news always reports stories and “this shouldn’t have happened in this world”. I can’t believe that this happened in this world where joy and goodness is supposed to be king.

I do this. I live a public and private life so that people don’t see who I really am with a dark heart. I want to be the hope for the world so I show my perfect public self and refuse to live in reality with my community. I hate putting faith in myself, it is not joy, it is not good.

The problem with finding joy and goodness in this world is we refuse to admit that we are what makes it sad and evil. The problem is not admitting that this world is sad and evit the problem is we don’t want to admit we are the problem. We don’t want to claim this.. The first step is to claim our wrongs and admit that we need someone to pull us out of this sad world, to pull us out of cynicism, we need someone to be perfect for us. We need someone to be able to put hope in, we need realistic optimism. We don’t find this by putting faith in ourselves.

Put your faith in Christ. The one who was perfect. Jesus is the hope of the world. He is supposed to be king. What Jesus teaches is that this world is fallen but he has come to restore it.

Be encouraged, there is hope.

John 16: 22 So with you: now is your time of grief, but I will see you again and you will rejoice, and no one will take away your joy.

John 16: 27…the Father himself loves you because you have love me and have believed that I came from God.

John 16: 33 I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world!!!!! (exclamation marks added)

Tuesday, February 8, 2011

Better Prayer through the Gospel

Just re-read A Praying Life by Paul Miller

This is what I have come away with. When we pray we should pray as children of God. He is our father who desires to answer our request. We should ask with confidence that he will listen. We pray this way by realizing that without God we can do nothing. We believe this in theology and theory but we do not LIVE this way.

examples. 1. We don't pray for our daily bread. Because we don't have to worry about what we will eat tomorrow we don't have to pray for it. We have it under control so we do not needs God's assist with it. (at least this is how we live, we may answer the question differently). 2. In the same way with family or with work or with any problem we encounter, if we know the solution to the problem then we do not have to pray about it. If we know the solution, then all we have to do is that, the solution. We don't need God's help, the requirement for success is evident. Ironically our solution often makes it more complex.

It seems our theology that we need God for everything and our prayer lives are in a disconnect, (mine is) I depend on myself for so many things, work, finances, relationships, change, growth. Prayer bends our hearts towards our father and confesses regularly that we can do nothing without him.

This "childlike" type prayer really creates in us a "learned helplessness". We must remind our selves through our need for prayer that we need Christ for everything. This is what I gained from the book the second (okay first and a half) time through. Prayer is demonstrating the Gospel to ourselves over and over. Prayer succeeds not through our being good at it, it succeeds as we realize we need God and we lean on him for help.

"Jesus isn't just the savior of my soul. He's also the savior of my prayers. Asking in Jesus' name isn't another thing i have to get right so my prayers are perfect. It is one more gift of God because my prayers are so imperfect."

Anyone catching a theme with this whole Jesus thing? We are weak, Jesus is strong. When we understand we are weak, Jesus makes us strong. Repeat.

See the beauty in there? That is what Jesus did. He made him self weak first so that we can follow him and he can raise us both up with him (cue turney quoting Philippians 2)
The only reason that is possible, the gospel is possible and prayer is possible is because Jesus is infinite enough as God to receive our prayers and to change us and also personal enough to care about us.

Praise God for difficult circumstances and suffering because they make us aware of our weaknesses, or dependency on God and drive us to him through prayer.

Cling to the Gospel. It will drive us to prayer.