The more I get saved, the more they get lost.

When I feel true joy, security, happiness, and community and then I encounter someone who does not have that. I want that for them. I want them to have Christ.

It's a perspective issue.

If our lives aren't different than non-Christians then we don't see the reason for them to follow Jesus. Because we don't feel its effect on us. At the same time, they don't see the difference either, and they in turn don't see the reason to follow.

Work out your faith and follow Christ.